Saturday, July 12, 2008

QUESTION: Self-Esteem

Dear Edahn,

I have a problem. A friend of mine has addressed me as a “single loser.” It makes me feel so helpless and lonely. So… Small. What do I do? Maybe I really am a loser?

Sincerely,

Sad single loser

3 comments:

edahn said...

Dear Sad single loser,

If I were you, the first question I would be asking myself is whether your feelings of helplessness and loneliness have been CREATED by your friend's comments, or simply REVEALED by them. In other words, were you lonely and helpless before he made his comments and just unconnected to those feelings?

Anonymous said...

meh

edahn said...

Your mom mehs me all night long, biyatch. No ask a real question.